Hilary Jerome ScarsellaWelcome
Hi, I’m Hilary.
I’m a scholar, writer, educator, and advocate. I study ethics, religion, gender, trauma, and society. My specialization is in what these together have to do with sexual violence. I try to understand how religion goes wrong, imagine new ways for it to go right, and create strategies for stopping sexual violence in the process.
I write, teach courses, lead workshops, and create resources designed to help communities do this work together. I’ve long been a direct advocate for survivors of abuse in religious contexts, and I carry that hat into every conversation I enter.
I’m also fully incapable of sticking to one area of interest. If you get to know me, you’ll find plants, beauty, spirituality, grief, politics, tiny kiddos, and who knows what else seeping in around the edges.
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10 Principles of Survivor-Centered Care
How To Respond When Someone Says They Were Abused
“This is the question I hear most: ‘Ok, but how should we respond when someone shares or reports an experience of sexual violence?’
‘What’s ethical? What’s not? What’s helpful? What do survivors actually need? Is it possible to act in solidarity with survivors while also doing right by those survivors say harmed them? What does that look like? Can you give me an itemized list of instructions? Please.’”
12 Principles of Survivor-Centered Policy & Praxis
How To Be A Community That Navigates Reports of Sexual Violence Well
“So, you care about sexual violence. You want to do right by survivors, and you want to impose meaningful accountability on perpetrators. You know these aren’t things court or carceral systems can be depended on to offer. And, you want to make sure your own community of belonging is prepared to do its part well, if and when someone comes forward to disclose that they’ve experienced sexual violence from one of your members. You need to write a policy. Or you need to update the one that has been sitting for 30 years in the filing cabinet down the hall. Where do you start? Right here!”
Nevertheless, She Persisted—And Was Very Tired
Comments On The Parable of The Persistent Widow.
“Being a white, middle-class widow today in the United States can’t be much like being a widow in Jesus’ time and place. I imagine I got the better end of that deal by a long shot. But when I read this text my visceral reaction was, “Jesus,” (literally) “let that woman rest.” The text’s description of her persistence landed in my widow bones as a curse, not a virtue.”